Sunday, May 21, 2017

MSLD 511 Module 9 - Course Reflections


Course Reflections


Two months ago, in my conception, leadership was a process in which an individual (leader), focused in a holistic and systemic view of the organization, influence a person or group of people (followers) to achieve a common goal based on the mission and vision of the organization itself, while taking in consideration not just the goal but the individuals involved.

          Nowadays I would not change my definition, but add two considerations while explaining it, based on my studies, discussions and self-reflection throughout the course. Starting by organization, the term is not only related to the political and corporative world. Organization in this definition includes your own self, the core of every relation in leadership, where all the theories is applicable, since we influence our own actions, emotions and mind, learn from self-reflection, ask ourselves question and act towards changes.

In the matter of influence, a leader, seeking for effective leadership, influences a follower by building a relationship. This relationship must be genuine and based on trust empathy, and consideration, through emotional and rational intelligence.

In my professional environment, I can say I am situational leader, who try to consider every possibility, analyzing the situation and the people involved to make the best decision, being a decision for a final goal or for the process itself. This way, there are times I am directive, others I am supportive, when time permits I teach my followers (which comes along with the coaching style, even if the components of coaching cannot be applicable in my work environment due to lack of time) and constantly I delegate tasks to everyone who is willing to learn something new or improve the performance in a specific area. Being situational, I am as well an authentic leader, and I lead by example. I aspire to trust more my followers when I am not around, but with the history of the department it is a challenging task to aspire. Still, I think I can influence the situation to make sure things are done when I am not present, being more directive in some occasions, more supportive in other and delegate even more.

In my personal life, I can say I mix all approaches and styles, again, according the situation. I am passionate about helping and assisting on making the way clear to ease some arduous steps for those I love (path-goal). I roll my sleeves up and go out in the “dirty” not measuring anything to make people around me happy (servant). I am very social, charismatic and I love interaction, and often I am a way of transformation on people’s life - being on changing a point of view or dealing directly with hard moments (transformational). I try constantly to adapt to environment, conditions and factors which influence the situation (adaptive). I aspire to be more emotionally intelligent, controlling my emotions while dealing with challenging situations, and to be more considerate towards others' feelings.

No matter in which sphere, I am always an authentic leader. Not necessarily as follower but always as leader. The important learning, in any time we are acting as leaders or followers, is to understand and respect other’s perspective, believing that there is a reason behind every decision, and do never judge the individual around us, independent of formal rank, without taking in consideration all possible variables, the ones affecting or being affected by the situation, directly or indirectly on the decision.

We all need to give a vow of trust to people around, to our organization and to ourselves, and from this point on work on more possibilities, alternatives and different perspectives, through a deep critical thinking.

Sunday, May 7, 2017

MSLD 511 Module 7 - Inner Work for Authentic Leadership


Inner Work for Authentic Leadership


Authentic Leadership focuses on whether leadership is genuine and “real”. Northouse (2016, p. 195). This leadership theory, as Servant Leadership, can be combined with distinct types of theories and even being blended with one another, since both of them involves a specific condition from the leader point of view, independent of situation or followers. And this is not a matter of coincidence. William George (2003), known as Bill George, found through interviews with 125 successful leaders that authentic leaders have a genuine desire to serve others. (Northouse, 2016, p. 197).

          George studies about authentic leadership goes in accordance of Northouse (2016) opinion, when he mentions that currently people demand for trustworthy leadership, which make the studies timely and worthwhile. According to George (2012), this was realized even from the leaders’ point of view since the financial crisis of 2008.

          On the subject of Authentic Leadership, George (2012) says the practice of mindful leadership gives you tools to measure and manage your life as you’re living it. On an interview with Daniel Goleman in 2012, George says that to be an authentic leader we need to do an inner work, to develop our self-awareness, which for George includes processing internally real world experience, through self-reflection and honest feedback from people we trust and have an intimate level and not a superficial relationship.

          For me, the real-world experiences which have been most instructional is my relationship with my fiancée, where I need to be myself, to share my thoughts, to face challenges, seek for development and continuous improvement as a human being, as friend, and as woman. I need to practice daily my communications skills (active and passive), my forgiveness, and my patience, review my weaknesses, abdicate from my self-interests, learn how to receive, and practice constantly on how to give. On my other relationships (professional, personal and social), there are times where I do not go an extra mile to improve, to listen actively or to be honest and sincere, since sometimes will take a long way to be understood or it will bring challenges I do not want to face, however on my conjugal relationship I need to be my-self which instruct me to be authentic.

          Self-reflection it is what I do most regarding to my relationship, which has its downtimes, as everything we do in excess. I am in an ultra-long distance relationship for three years now, and I live alone, apart from being away from my family as well. These factors and my job conditions give me a long time to think and rethink about everything. I do not really need to look for time, space or condition. My self-reflection is constant and more than once daily, which is good since I am always reviewing my actions, the consequences and the alternatives to a better outcome. What I need to control is my imagination found on my fears and insecurities. Excess of free time alone and constant self-reflection can bring negative consequences as well and this is a variable neglected on this type of studies, since does not affect majority. As a point to make, for an instance, related to this specific life-style as air crew (unknown for people outside the field) is the amount of people diagnosed with depression and alcoholism, plus the ones who hide the symptoms fearing the consequences. I do not really know if there are studies on that, but as someone inside the field, in touch with the human beings working out there, observing behaviors and comments, I can easily say the rate is high. My though in this illustration is: maybe this is an excess of self-evaluation unaccompanied of action-plan? Simply a hint to think about.

          Honest feedback, in my case, independent of the sphere of my life, I receive from my fiancée.  We constantly talk about ourselves as active partners inside the relationship, we share our thoughts regarding to our professional life looking for each other’s counsel, and we touch in points as family issues and circle of people around us (how they affect and is affected by us). There are two points to make related to feedback, which is a general rule in my opinion, but personally, me and him practice constantly. When and how this feedback is provided is crucial for its effectiveness. The person giving the feedback needs to considerate several variables while choosing the words, tone of voice and time to do so. The person receiving needs to open its mind for listening, since constructive feedback, when necessary, might hurt or touch in areas inside us where we do not want to be touched. The other point I would like to make, which is linked with the previous one, is the humility we need to have to ask for feedback and our self-awareness while doing so. Using my own example, I usually ask for feedback when I am feeling good from inside and when I am craving for self-development. I always choose a time when we are alone, usually while on bed in the end of the day, when we are physically together (not in phone calls or text message) and first I evaluate myself if I will be able to handle things I do not want to hear, probably developmental points I already know, subconsciously, I need to work on and do not want or know how to face this challenge.

          The practice of self-reflecting and seeking for opinion regarding to myself, helps me so much as a leader, independent if self-leadership or if leader of others. The outcomes are clearly seen on the performance of my employees, on the feedback of customers, on the results of my action and advices given to my family (specially my mom) when I need to interfere in any issue and on my conjugal relationship, where we overcome obstacles every time in a better way and avoid making the same mistakes. There is a long way to go to achieve the best leader I could be, honestly speaking, however this examples illustrate my way on the long path to authentic leadership.





“As you take on greater leadership responsibilities, the key is to stay grounded and authentic, face new challenges with humility, and balance professional success with personal success.”

Bill George



REFERENCES

Northouse, P. G. (2016). Leadership: theory and practice. (7th edition). Thousand Oaks, CA: Sage.

George, B. (2003). Authentic Leadership: Rediscovering the secrets to creating lasting value. San Francisco, CA: Jossey-Bass.

George, B. (2012). Inner Work for Authentic Leadership. Retrieved from https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SmPu2LQ84ts on May 07, 2017.

George, B. (2012). Mindfulness Helps You Become a Better Leader. Retrieved from https://hbr.org/2012/10/mindfulness-helps-you-become-a.html on May 7, 2017.